The following tips for a Stress-Free Haircut for Your Child with Special Needs are taken from Netbuddy. Netbuddy is a free online community for anyone connected with special needs. It is a place to share practical tips and solutions for supporting people with learning disabilities and autism.
See more at: http://www.netbuddy.org.uk
1. Swimming goggles
Tyne really dislikes getting water in her face, especially her eyes. We put swimming goggles on in the shower for washing hair. Showers and haircuts are a lot less trouble now.
2. Hairstyle apps
Hairstyle apps for your mobile phone allow you to try different hairstyles on yourself before getting a cut. Useful for people who don’t like change. Try adding mustaches and beards …. laughter can be a powerful cure for this phobia.
3. Hair color samples
Try giving the hair-color samples as finger fidgets during a hair cut. Great distraction.
4. Try a variety of brushes
If someone doesn’t like having their hair brushed, it could just be the brush you’re using. Try a variety of different brushes to find one they like the feel of.
5. Can do shampoo
Make it easier for someone with special needs to wash their own hair by getting shampoo in a pump. Avoids opening a slippery wet cap, figuring out how much shampoo you need and using both hands at the same time.
6. Use talc
Put talcum powder on the neck when cutting hair. It lets you blow the hair off easily and isn’t itchy.
7. Unscented shampoo
If someone is sensitive to strong smells, that could be one of the reasons they don’t like having their hair washed and/or cut. Try using unscented shampoo instead.
8. Cut it out
The word ‘cut’ used to frighten my daughter as she associated it with pain – cutting her finger etc. We started using different words like ‘tidy up your hair’ and found she was more accepting of the hairdresser.
9. Modeling video
To overcome the fear of having a haircut, it can help to show another person having their haircut. Videos can be useful to give people an idea of what to expect. Here is a video I have found useful for using with autistic children.
10. Haircut distraction
My 8 year old son with ASD would not let the barber cut his hair and would throw a full blown tantrum, until we tried putting a portable DVD player in front of him. Now he’s so distracted we get no more tantrums.
11. Good vibrations
For boys, use an electric toothbrush a few years before they need to start shaving. Helps gets them used to the vibrations and noise of an electric shaver.
12. ‘Visiting’ the hairdressers
I’ve found that taking my daughter to the hairdressers when she is not having her hair cut helps her see it’s not always scary. I take her when I’m having a cut or her younger brother is too.
13. A window seat
My son is very sensitive to hair cutting, but sitting him in the shop window to watch the traffic makes him slightly more tolerant. Still a few wiggles and bolts for the door, but much better.
14. ipad distraction
I take my son’s ipad to the barber’s and put his favourite clips on it to distract him, while the barber cuts his hair at the speed of light.
15. Do it at home
Some people cope with hair cuts much better if it’s done at home. Ask around for recommendations, ask your local barber/hairdresser, or Google mobile hairdressers locally.
16. Wash it at home
Julie hates having her hair washed at the hairdressers. We just ask for a dry cut or just wet her hair with a plant spray.
17. Stress toys
When we go to the hairdresser we always take along stress toys or favorite books.
18. Ear plugs
Callum is very sensitive to noise. We find that soft, flexible ear plugs cut out all the noises of hair cutting.
19. Photo cue
I show Billy a picture of the actual barber shop and a picture of the barber who will be cutting his hair, so he knows what to expect.
20. Get the time right
Go to the Barber shop at the quietest times, so there is less time to wait. There is also the added bonus of less ‘people noise’ at these quiet times. As our barber became more of a friend and he could see how distressed Pete was, he suggested we came back once he had closed the Barber shop for the day, so it would be just us in the shop.
21. Hair-free top to go
I take a fresh top for Wendy to change into as soon as her hair is cut – it lessens the ‘itchy feeling’.